Really nice piece--It’s clear to me that you and I are very different (I’m pretty extroverted and, as my wife would say, overly willing to take on relationships with people despite their obvious flaws) but you have a way of explaining who you are and how you are that really helps me understand you. I think that’s why I keep reading your stuff: I love getting a window into the ways that other people think.
That's wonderful, Tom. My husband is the same way. He's willing to overlook a lot to stay friends with people. I keep sharing my story because I hope other people will see themselves in it, but it obviously wasn't directed at extroverts this time. Thank you for continuing to read my stuff. I'm glad to hear that you're getting something out of it.
I guarantee you she won't! Well, she'll stop by, but she won't subscribe and she won't comment, because she has time for very little else but painting.
Amy, I loved how your analogy brilliantly showed the flaw in Cain's argument. Creating a space where people connect is totally different than actively seeking people out and engaging with them. She and Malcolm Gladwell are obviously speaking about two very different phenomena.
I'm also interested in hearing from introverts who have had different energy levels after social interactions when they've been more authentic or less.
This is a thought take, I hadn't considered the authenticity angle before. Thanks.
Thoughtful take
Thank you!
Really nice piece--It’s clear to me that you and I are very different (I’m pretty extroverted and, as my wife would say, overly willing to take on relationships with people despite their obvious flaws) but you have a way of explaining who you are and how you are that really helps me understand you. I think that’s why I keep reading your stuff: I love getting a window into the ways that other people think.
That's wonderful, Tom. My husband is the same way. He's willing to overlook a lot to stay friends with people. I keep sharing my story because I hope other people will see themselves in it, but it obviously wasn't directed at extroverts this time. Thank you for continuing to read my stuff. I'm glad to hear that you're getting something out of it.
I shared it with my wife, who describes herself as one small step away from being a hermit!
Thank you! I hope she stops by and says hello.
I guarantee you she won't! Well, she'll stop by, but she won't subscribe and she won't comment, because she has time for very little else but painting.
Awww, that's too bad, but I understand.
Amy, I loved how your analogy brilliantly showed the flaw in Cain's argument. Creating a space where people connect is totally different than actively seeking people out and engaging with them. She and Malcolm Gladwell are obviously speaking about two very different phenomena.
I'm also interested in hearing from introverts who have had different energy levels after social interactions when they've been more authentic or less.